Never let a scale define you

Shaming someone based on assumptions we make from our perception of them does nothing at all to encourage healthy choices. That remains the same, regardless of the size of the person on whose body we are commenting

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How often do you see yourself in mirror, and just hate the sight you see, or frown at the sight? How often do you see image of models on internet or magazines and then look down at yourself and begrudge about what you see? How often do you see your slim friend and envy her for being so thin, skinny and getting all the attention that you want for yourself that you deserve? In this materialistic world all everyone cares about or all everyone wants is having a perfect slim and skinny body. Continue reading “Never let a scale define you”

Multiple wives in Islam

If you deem it best for the orphans, you may marry their mothers – you may marry two, three, or four. If you fear that you’ll become unfair, then you should be content with only one, or with what you already have. Additionally, you are thus more likely to avoid financial hardship.

If you grew up in India odds are none of the decision was taken by you, either your parents or your grandparents have decided how you will live your life. You might top in your class, university or even won a national price, there are something’s that you just can’t do yourself, like choosing your own life partner. Growing up in India is in itself a unique experience. You won’t understand it until you interact with foreign people and their parents or watch foreign TV shows or movies and see how different their culture is. Continue reading “Multiple wives in Islam”

Fear of Commitment

You’re are either in or you’re out. There is no such thing as life in between.

Commitment can be a frightening word for some people because of the proposition of what it means to commit. For many, commitment signifies loss, feeling of being trapped or controlled. Committing to another person involves consideration of another person’s thoughts, feelings and needs which implies a loss of independence in activities and decision-making. Commitment can be defined as a dedication or obligation that binds an individual to a particular person, cause, or course of action. Continue reading “Fear of Commitment”

It’s ok to give yourself permission to say ‘NO’

The difference between successful people and really successful people is that really successful people say no to almost everything.

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‘No’ is in itself a complete sentence. It does not require any justification or explanation.

‘No’ is such a simple word with only two letters, yet saying ‘no’ is harder for most people than saying ‘yes’ or ‘I’ll be glad to help you’. Many of us grow up to become people-pleaser in their lives, the word ‘no’ drops out of their vocabulary and they substitute it with lot of ways to be agreeable and keep other person happy. It has become engraved in our culture to instantaneously say ‘yes’, rather than saying no, since it feels weird  and even rude sometimes.  More scared we get from saying no, harder things become for us. Continue reading “It’s ok to give yourself permission to say ‘NO’”

Grades Define our Future?

Almost everyone says marks don’t matter. It doesn’t define who we are, but is it really true?

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It’s that time of the year when students are done with their exams, some of the might have already received their results, some might still be waiting for results.  Some might be excited after seeing their result, some might be sad, some might be depressed, frustrated or might be in confusion.  These emotions arise because students, parents and academic have different perspective of what marks really means. Continue reading “Grades Define our Future?”

Ego: Not worth leaving things for

The ego is not who you really are. The ego is your self-image; it is your social mask; it is the role you are playing. Your social mask thrives on approval. It wants control, and it is sustained by power, because it lives in fear. Life is too short for ego to get in the way and take everything away from you.

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‘I’ll not call him first’; ’it was her mistake, why should I say sorry to her first’ these are some of the most common phrases that we use or listen every day in our lives. The conflict that we feel inside ourselves of why we should do things first has become so common that instead of doing something about it and saving the relationship we prefer to keep numb and let our ego destroy what could have been a loving bond. Maintaining high ego is more important for people than saving their relation. Continue reading “Ego: Not worth leaving things for”

Life is full of Possibilities

Death..! Death is so final, whereas Life..!, Life is full of endless possibilities.

She unlocked the main door with heavy heart, with small and tedious steps came inside and switched on the lights, with a sigh she took of her coat and hanged it near the door and kept keys on table. Slowly and unenthusiastically she made her way to kitchen and poured herself a glass of chilled water. With every drop she could feel her inner self crumbling, her senses were getting numb, she just wanted all the feelings to go away, to give her a moment of peace. Continue reading “Life is full of Possibilities”